TAKE THE WORK FURTHER

With These Resources

Press Pause Guide

If your arguments feel like marathons, it’s time for a smarter strategy. Press Pause: The Couple's Guide to Cooling Down shows you how to pause, regroup, and return to the conversation ready to get somewhere.

The Workbook

Looking for a way to work on your relationship outside of therapy? This practical workbook gives you structured exercises to work through together and put what you’re learning into practice.

Affair Recovery Guide


The early days after an affair can leave you with a lot of questions. This guide explains what to expect during affair recovery and how to move through the early stages without causing further hurt.

Recommitment & Separation Guides

Whether you decide to recommit to your relationship or separate, these guides help you think through what comes next and approach the process with care.

Free Guide

Press Pause: The Couple's Guide to Cooling Down

When an argument starts escalating, knowing when to pause can make all the difference. This free guide shows you how to cool things down and come back to the conversation more productively.

The Workbook

Your Companion for the Work

The Workbook is a 100+ page resource of evidence-based information to help you untangle the patterns in your relationship and build better communication. Use it to complement your therapy or help you make progress independently.

Inside, you’ll find 20+ exercises and journal prompts covering topics like recurring conflict, communication, emotional regulation, and repair.

$29.99 for the full workbook · Preview it for free

Affair Recovery Guide

There’s a lot to process after an affair, and you don’t have to figure it all out at once. This PDF gives you information to read and return to as you work through recovery.

If conversations are too painful or escalate quickly, read the guide individually and bring your questions to your intensive. If you’re comfortable discussing it together, you can also work through it as a couple.

$29.99 · PDF Download

Discernment Intensive Resources

You may find these guides most useful after your intensive, when you have a clearer sense of the path ahead. Read them individually or together, depending on what feels right for your relationship.

Recommitment Guide

Deciding to recommit raises a new question: What needs to change for the relationship to work? This guide gives you space to consider what moving forward together will require.

$29.99 · PDF Download

Separation Guide

Choosing to separate comes with its own set of difficult decisions. This guide helps you think through what comes next and how you want to approach the process.

$29.99 · PDF Download